The little woman and I have stopped arguing. Now we text links back and forth that reference apt, witty rejoinders on the web. It saves a lot of time and it gets much less personal. On another note I recently unfriended a longtime acquaintance who insisted on spoiling my morning every day with ridiculous racist remarks and baseless conspiracy theories. The combined events have lowered my blood pressure considerably and have allowed me to chuckle more at myself and the world at large. Highly recommend.